Women have an XX chromosome and men have a XY chromosome. No matter how you think you identify, no matter what you wear or amount of surgeries you have; your pre-disposition at birth will never change that biological fact. So why am I expected to change how I address you? Can’t you authentically be yourself without forcing others to buy into how “you” feel.
Either way a person feels inside angry, happy, male, female does not change how others perceive you and truly rarely do we care.